Magical Online..
>> July 05, 2009
One of my online friend just told me that it was nice to chat with me, 'coz i made him feel like a real friend to me..
Online or not online friends are real for me..but what is magic from an online friend is that we feel so close even more than our friends in the real life. We never met and neither we could be able to meet someday, but feels like we have an involvement with each other's life. We could be a part of their decision, our opinion could be their consideration even sometimes they really do what we suggested them to do.
We talk very close like we have no secrets, jokes, discuss anything even if it's silly or dirty, be there when they're happy or sad..sometime it feels like forever friends..that's the magic too..
But when we started to hesitate our online friendship, lack of communication, under estimate their feelings of how they misses us, no more chat, no more spending time together or even alocate a short times just to talk with us, etc..we would sooner or later think that "it's not more than an online friend, they're not real because we won't meet 'em anyway.."
if that happens..then we will lost the magical friendship..
friends wherever they are, online or not online..needs a maintenance..some people said that "we will always be friend eventhough we hardly talk, we will always be a part of each other.." the lackness could be caused by our busy routine, our work, our activities whatever it is until we hardly spend some time with our online friends.. but is it true ? can we really be honest if that quote will work in a real online friendship ?
yes it is true, we will always be friend..but what kind of friend ? just friend or a bestfriend ?
once again, a friendship needs a maintenance eventhough just once in a week or so, from the chatbox, board, sms, or anything that u can categorized it as building a communication..treat them and let them be a part of our life, part of our happiness and sadness or else we won't feel the magic anymore, and that's the sadest part..'coz what used to make us feel so close, so very close, has gone..
"i'm sad when you're happy and i'm happy when you're sad..but not because i don't want you to be happy, i just wish i could be a part of the reason of your happiness.."
Huge love and an unstopable thanks for my hi5 Crazy Group friends..if it's not because of you guyz and your sweetest wise crazyness, i won't be like what i am now..i am better with you guyz around..
Specially dedicated to my D, K, Dani, and my bestest hi5 crazy group mates ( Dave, Maria, Christine, Tree, Kab, Lina, LC, G, and the rest of you i can't mention one by one) ..As for you Screens, thank you for reminds me again about the magical online. Do not give up with your life Screens, we all here for you :bigsmile: